So tonight will be the first date of our social experiment! Yikes why am I nervous?? Who has The Expert set me up with? Let me reiterate why she is setting me up and why I am not picking my own dates. We all tend to always pick the same kind of person. Even though they might be wrong for us. Kim is here to get me out of my own box. I see she recommends having a drink at the bar before he gets there. That might be dangerous. I'm kind of a light weight when it comes to drinking. She says he will find me.. yeah! I'm the one who's asleep on the bar...possibley drooling! Anyway this will be interesting. The guy says he's 5'10". Does that mean he's really only 5'7"? I'm pretty tall and these are TOTALLY MY issues.. but when a guy is shorter than I am for some reason I feel like an amazon woman which, blame it on my upbringing... is not a comfortable feeling for me. So what's the big deal here? I'm just going to meet a total stranger for a drink. I can do this.
On another note...yeah...I should have blocked my number when I called that other guy a couple of days ago. He just called me at my office! We have a date tomorrow night..but something is a little creepy with this guy. I'm sure he is nervous too, but there are some things that one should just not say to someone they don't know at all! His first line was harmless but really goofy. I read palms...and the added benefit is that I can hold your hand. cute. (not really)
Then he went a little too far in my opinion. He went on to say..I'd like to do more than that. Uh..dude... no. WE HAVEN'T EVEN MET!!
So that's it for now. Check in with you later!! After my DATE!
The Expert! I told Christie she should be honest and since she doesn't know him. Who cares! The response should go like this, "Okay so that was a little creepy, why don't we have conversations before hand holding is involved"! If anything, maybe that guy will learn something and not make the same verbal throw up at the next woman he meets!
ReplyDeleteGood point Kim... Honest vs nice. gotta work on that. Verbal throw up sounds nasty by the way!!
ReplyDeleteEeeeewwww. I'm a guy and I have used and really like Match.com. There are cool people online and off..and I don't like to dog another guy out there giving it a shot..but this guy talking about physical contact before even a "meet and greet" is a Bozo No-No. Red Flags....Danger, Danger Will Robinson. OK, OK and on the palm reading thing (Oy!)make sure your palm is on the table. Don't let him sit it is his lap. Oh, and good luck. Have fun. Mazel Tov!
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