Thanks but no thanks : )

Well, allow me to clarify. I do stand by what I said that this is match.com and not friends.com. Now date #1 who has made it known that he would like a second date with Christie should kindly get the response, 'Thank you, you're a really nice man but I think that we would be better off as friends". It's honest and straight to the point, since this is about finding Christie a love match & not an acquaintance match. Don't get me wrong, friendship is key to any relationship but the chemistry has to be there too. I've had the experience of not having great chemistry when going out for the first time with someone on one hand but then went out a second time because there was definitely something about that person that intrigued me. Getting to know someone takes time but why waste time if you already know that the person is someone you're not interested in? NEXT!