From an observer's perspective and well a man's view this online dating thing is more interesting to me initially than practical. There is so much nervous energy brewing at the onset because you have never interacted with this person, unlike dating offline where you ask someone on a date who you have seen and interacted with. This nervous energy seems to be an early distraction where you are questioning will the date look like their picture, etc. I was impressed by our Miss Matched however she channeled this energy and really took the first date that I observed to a comfort zone early on. But if you aren't attracted to the date off the bat, now what? Thats what I'm personally terrified about. You spend your time and (money) sifting through dates and finally deciding on somebody to spend a night of your hectic week with and what if in the first second before you have even had a drink there is NOTHING. Then what? I guess I'll find out this week.
Pete- I found myself in that position on date 2. I was exhausted from the week and not really wanting to be out. I knew as soon as the guy walked in the door that he wasn't for me. So that is my question. How much time to you give it before you say you have to go?
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