How are you doing ?First of all, I will like to say you have the most charming smile ever and if I am meant to present your picture in heaven, most of the Angel's will hide their faces in shame...And I feel so special reading from an Angel like you .
hmmm. That is an email that I got from a prospective date. Why does this not sit right with me? The Expert sends me the emails so I can kind of know what is going on. I told her to write back saying I really don't look like my picture. I'm a big fan of photo shop! I admit that it is hard for me to accept a compliment, but I think that one was a little extreme. I know...I know... We girls are so picky..and a guy can never do it right. He's either too nice or an ass. That being said.. I've concluded that we are all a mess. So basically what I am looking for is someone whose mess works well with mine. That's the million dollar question though. That's what everyone is trying to find. The perfect fit.
How do you know what the perfect fit is? Date #1 was a lot of fun and no shortage of conversation. That being said. I did not have that instant chemistry thing. Is that a requirement?? The instant part? Or is it a thing that develops?
I know that Kim said I was feeling like everyone that wants to date me looks like a grandpa. This is where it's a little tricky for me. I am used to hanging around...and yes dating younger men. The task here is for me to find someone outside of the music business -in the hopes of having a "normal" relationship. My "team" wants me to date guys in my own age bracket. There is definitely a difference between a guy in their late twenties/early thirties and someone who is 50+. Physically, let's face it...the younger guys do the trick. Intellectually, the older guys are much more interesting in terms of a conversation. Emotionally...it's a crap shoot who wins in that department.
I will have to listen to Jojo (The Observer) who said it seems that patience is in order. She also thinks I shouldn't go out on a second date with someone unless I have that chemistry thing. This is MATCH.com NOT FRIEND.com!!! SO What do you say to someone then who asks for a second date? Should I be direct? How do you tell a guy "Not The One". I mean ...literally...what do you say?? Especially if the date was enjoyable, but you know it's not "The One"
Just tell them you didn't feel any "chemistry" with them, but that you enjoyed the evening. Hang in there girl, there has to be a hot 45-50 year old out there. I found one:) Ok, yes I met him when he was 23, but if he were on the market today, I would totally go for him at age 52:) The question is, would he still go for me?
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